"He is so annoying" "she is writing with my pencil,pulling my hair and on top of that she is sitting on my seat" " What about him?" " He is destroying my books, pulling faces and doing disgusting tricks on me again." "That's not fair!!"
These are some of the many complaints heard from us about our siblings.
Arguments ,fights, bets and quarrels are only half of the journey you undergo with your sibling.With them you might have to share everything- books,pencils,toys,games,clothes,jewelry and even your parents attention and universe but what we forget is that we can also share our joy sorrow , troubles ,happiness and load so our sibling can help us remove something off our shoulders.They are our constant companions. I'm sure you all might remember the situation where you had to stay home and be with your sibling rather than going to play with your friends not even tantrums would change this decision it was like one stubborn mule. You'd feel doomed that you had to bail on your friends to be stuck with that brat. I think that this is just a phase and that when we are older or when our sibling is away we wouldn't have that much of a problem skipping time with our friends and spending it with our family. Siblings are like our backbone they support us in most of the things except when you bet whether that guy would wear yellow or purple today.No matter how many pranks you played on them they still are the ones who care for you,support you,protect you,help you, play with you,teach you ,assist you , love you, drive you nuts ,make you happy, mad , angry sometimes confused or even sad.
My brother consoles me whenever I cry and he goes to the person who made me unhappy and asks them to apologize to me he does all this even though he is only 3!! He might break my board games and tear my books but I' m pretty sure later he wouldn't have any objection in buying me more games and books than the ones he destroyed. Even though he scratched my face plenty of times I still love him. Except at the point of time he scratched me cause at that time I'd be really grumpy.
Siblings have an unbreakable bond and stick with each other even in the hardest circumstances by forgetting all about what we have against each other and we should cherish the memories especially the ones where you played jokes on each other.
We shouldn't consider all the arguments ,fights, bets and quarrels as barriers that are preventing us from connecting with our siblings. Let us all bond with them and try not to pull each others' hair off.